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11:53 AM
Well AJ has been getting creative in her schemes to get what she wants, and if I didn't know her so well she'd have me fooled.
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You wanna elaborate and give us any actual operative info or
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You dug your hole, now you need to get out of it.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:03 PM
How is symbolism of any type unnecessary? It can make things easier for many
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Who was saying that symbolism of any type is unnecessary?
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:06 PM
Vos - Today at 4:45 AM Unnecessary symbolism
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I think they were specifically referring to the pregnant tulpa thing, rather than symbolism as a whole
5:08 PM
I guess it would be in the sense that the symbolism of a pregnant tulpa wouldn't do much to help any aspect of making a new tulpa? It could do well for the belief that they exist? (edited)
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:08 PM
Yeah, I know, it's just that I don't see how tulpa pregnancy symbolism is worse than symbolism in general, that's what I meant
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You can't impreggo a tulpa unless if you want to actually cause that, which makes symbolism. They can't give birth to a new tulpa unless if you actually force the tulpa, or else it's essentially an instatulpa. It's just weird overall.
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Sorry, I was confused by the "of any type"
5:11 PM
I wonder if there is a distinction between symbolism that is backed by some concept and symbolism that isn't. Like, if the person's tulpa pregnancy was a symbol of them forcing a new tulpa vs them just imagining their tulpa was pregnant
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If you think pregnant tulpa symbolism is necessary, you're ridiculous, and if you don't, then you agree that it's an uneccesary symbolism.
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I think maybe unnecessary is used here in place of useless?
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again?
5:13 PM
"how is symbolism of any type useless?"
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:13 PM
Uh... it's more of if a person wants to try it, they should go ahead, there's no problem with it
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are you arguing for the utility of pregnant tulpas
5:13 PM
oh, ok
5:13 PM
I mean, there are problems with it.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:13 PM
No, I am arguing for the utility of symbolism
5:13 PM
The type of symbolism doesn't make a difference as long as it gets the job done
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You're not arguing for that effectively, I'd stick to the other claim.
5:14 PM
The issue is of the job in question.
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It would have some utility, I'm sure. I don't like the idea of it, but I don't think it's totally without value.
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Anyways, there's nothing inherently wrong with pregnant tulpas, but there's certainly a negative association with them. Every system I've met that has messed around with tulpa pregnancy has been so far off the escapist deep end that there's no hope of ever convincing them to think critically about the nature of the tulpa phenomenon.
5:18 PM
Like, sure, go ahead and make a pregnant tulpa, but don't talk to me about what tulpas are or aren't without thinking about it for awhile with some rigor.
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I agree with that, for what it's worth.
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I feel like this is probably some form of the general negative attitude towards tulpa pregnancy, that the people associated with it are degenerates
5:19 PM
@Abvieon {Alex}
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Although maybe not in saying they are beyond help. They are beyond the ability of an internet chat room to help.
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They don't necessarily need or want help.
5:20 PM
At best they are into doing their own thing, which is fine, but I feel like you should forfeit your right to hold an authoritative conversational position if you aren't interested in understanding the phenomenon.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:21 PM
Yeah, and that's a problem, you can't attack a practice based solely on what the people who do it are like
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That'll never happen, though, and I guess that's good. There's probably some better way of dealing with the problem of "non-rigorous hosts being the mouths from which newbs learn about shit."
5:21 PM
Lol, it's not good to attack a practice based solely on what the people who do it are like, yeah.
5:22 PM
But it's also a difficult-to-justify practice.
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[I'd be worried about to far flung child-like associations with pregnant tulpas that could maybe be detrimental for the tulpa?]
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Which is where I probably levy my actual complaints.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:22 PM
I fail to understand how it is difficult to "justify"
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Give me a good reason to fuck around with tulpa pregnancy?
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:24 PM
Experimentation, curiosity
5:24 PM
Also may be very helpful for those who are highly receptive to symbolism
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Yeah, I consider those pretty shitty justifications.
5:25 PM
Helpful towards what end, by the way?
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Good ideas will spread when spoken freely. I would be careful about trying to say who should and shouldn't be listened to. I've often been frustrated with similar. However, I think this sort of fantasy and exaggeration, is healthy for the community to exist and he heard in tandem with more grounded and serious opinions.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:25 PM
Where do you get the idea that experimentation needs a strong justification so long as the experimentation itself is not hurting anyone? If the symbolism fails, one can just abandon it and force the new tulpa normally.
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Namely, because those who try to live in fantasy are probably trying to escape a situation they truly cannot change, and to help them in that time is good.
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@Reguile the community has been trending away from rigorous thought over the last few years, dude. (edited)
5:26 PM
Where have you been that you think that these sorts of things help at all.
5:26 PM
Oh, see that's a completely different point.
5:26 PM
Yeah, people can do whatever they want.
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I agree, and I am not a fan of it, but I ultimately believe that what should succeed will.
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In terms of arguing for fucking around with tulpa pregnancy, in the context of the community, I don't see it ever doing anything but acting as another strange siren song for the escapists and the willfully ignorant.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:27 PM
Experimentation is good. The mind is a complex and amazing thing and one should try to get the most out of what it can do. One should look for new ways of doing something and should not avoid something simply because it is deemed unnecessary.
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Just like online rp and overemphasis on forms and quirky character traits.
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I will say that there are many actively trying to supress more serious or grounded forms of tulpamancy. It is those people I have a massive issue with, and who I believe are the source of your issues as well.
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[I just fail to see any merit in pregnancy based symbolism and potential demerits myself.]
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:29 PM
Again, you are connecting the act to the type of person who is most likely to do it, which is not a good reason to condemn the act itself (edited)
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I'm not condemning the act itself.
5:29 PM
Notice that I said People can do whatever they want.
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The argument would be better said that performing the act indicates that the person is likely of a certain mindset.
5:30 PM
So the two are connected
5:30 PM
Or are argued to be
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@Abvieon {Alex} if you want a crisp clean fresh claim, a rephrasing, let me try and put it this way:
5:31 PM
There is a huge issue with this community, a lack of rigorous thought about the tulpa phenomenon.
5:31 PM
I have personally identified the decline in rigorous thought within the community to have existed alongside the rise in erp/cutesytups/escapisthosts/etc.
5:32 PM
These distractions (from rigorously thinking about the tulpa phenomenon) are not inherently problematic.
5:32 PM
They are fine as acts.
5:32 PM
However, every tulpa community area (discord servers, irc, forums, etc) are always acting as the landing area for new people.
5:33 PM
These new people trend towards the erp/cutesytups/escapisthosts/etc. crowds more and more.
5:33 PM
Because it's fucking easy to not ask questions about tulpas and to assume that what you're doing makes sense.
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:33 PM
I think semi-scientific thought about tulpas and erp/cuties/escapists don't really exclude each other.
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This is problematic to me.
5:34 PM
They don't exclude but they grate, at least in practice.
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:34 PM
Anyway, we are emotionally attached to our tulpas.
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WHat does that have to do with anything, luna.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:36 PM
I don't think a "lack of rigorous thought" is characterized by escapism or fantasy, but rather a refusal or avoidance to thinking in depth about things or the mechanics behind them. I don't think most people actively avoid doing so, though a lot of people just end up not because they aren't the type of person to be inclined towards that sort of thing, or it never really crosses their mind to do so in the first place. Someone can be an escapist or "degenerate" as you call them and still exercise rigorous thought. Hell, in some ways I'm an escapist and love delving into fantasy but I also enjoy thinking about things critically, coming up with theories, etc.
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:36 PM
That it implies our thinking about tulpas won't be "rigorous" all the time anyway.
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@Abvieon {Alex} Maybe you're interested in that sort of thing, but I've had too many experiences of being told 1) "how can you even have tulpas, you clearly hate them" 2) "I don't even care about what a tulpa is" 3) "how dare you try to invalidate my tulpas" etc. when I 1) love my tulpas more than most anyone or anything and 3) i'm not at all even invalidating tulpas. 2) this is legitimately anti-thought
5:38 PM
@Deleted User that's not what I'm proposing, but okay.
5:39 PM
Also, a refusal or avoidance to thinking in depth about the mechanics of the tulpa phenomenon should probably exclude people from answering questions about the mechanics of the tulpa phenomenon.
5:39 PM
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:39 PM
I know that type of accusations from experience, sadly.
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Abvieon {Alex} 6/20/2018 5:39 PM
Yeah, that's just people allowing their emotions to overtake everything, not leaving room for any other kind of thought
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this is the issue, people who legitimately do not care or refuse to think about things acting as authorities in the community.
5:40 PM
And then when they are criticized, the critics are told to leave them alone because they're not hurting anyone.
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:40 PM
Still, I can't see what erp/cuties/escapism has to do with it.
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Josh going off. Preach the truth.
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[mooh, there is more to life than rigorous thoughts. And that's what we are doing host and tulpa, living our lives. It doesn't even have to be a priority really. And don't say to just go find other places this is like the only place you can safely be open about it.]
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WHy do people think I'm interested in living a 100 percent rigorously thought out existence.
5:41 PM
This is the god damned .info server.
5:41 PM
It's a community towards discovering/proving/arguing for the existence of tulpas.
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[Because that's how you act here? ^.^Well more or less. Sometimes]
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WHy the fuck am I always made out to be some extremist for giving a shit about the purpose of the community
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Josh isn't wrong.
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Deleted User 6/20/2018 5:42 PM
Tulpas are for people. I think we should try not to judge their motivation. But yes, anti-science is a problem, you seem to mistakenly assume sources of it thoguh.
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[Is it? A lot of people are just here to speak around in a plural community]
5:42 PM
[Discovering/proving/arguing don't need to be the main priorities]
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